After further analyzing my data, I think it’s time to revisit interracial dating, and here are the results (black men with white women):

• Santa Rosa Craigslist

You are not going to pick these women up off of a cold approach. With almost all of these girls that I’ve pulled, it took them a fair amount of time to get use to the idea of dating a black guy. In other words, your only real chance at these girls is if you will be seeing them over a prolonged period of time due to some common activity or shared social circle. No, they aren’t racist, but generally speaking, they simply prefer Caucasian men, and they aren’t going to date a black guy unless he gives her a REALLY good reason(s) to risk upsetting her family and putting up with the drama of a primarily All American white social circle criticizing her(“You’re dating a black guy!?”). In short, dating a black guy is just too much outside of their comfort zone.

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The reason why I seem to do so well in suburban bars? Because older white women tend to go here. What their family and social circle prefer doesn’t matter as much. When they hit this age range, white women become very open to dating outside of their race. What I noticed about these women, is that they don’t put up much of a shield when you approach them. For instance, when I approach older white women, they just talk, talk, talk. When I approach typical younger All American white women? Almost all of them put up an initial shield. Why? Many simply aren’t open to the idea of dating black men due to the social stigma attached to them, so they put up a defense mechanism.

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Yes, these girls are from traditional all white social circles, but black men have a distinct advantage with these types of women; they are exotic to these types of women. Many of these women have never met a black guy until their college years, so they just can’t resist the temptation of dating and sleeping with them. In fact, most of the girls that I fuck with come from this category. And when I say country, I don’t men redneck, I mean a woman that grew up in the middle of nowhere; women that didn’t grow up in a city, usually on a farm or in a very small town. The problem with these women, is that it is hard to find them. They go to your typical sports/frat/ritzy bars, but you don’t realize they are Country/European until after the fact, and are generally difficult to identify because nothing about their looks gives them away.

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Self explanatory. Not that they date black men exclusively, but these women have a huge preference for black men over white men, or they are VERY open to dating black men because of cultural similarities. If you’re a black guy looking to pickup white women off of a cold approach, then these women are your best bet, and you need to go where they go. Where do they go? Hip-hop/urban dance clubs. Do not waste your time at sports/frat/ritzy bars when you can go to one of these places.

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I can’t really nail this down, but I never really get any trouble or difficulty with Italian women. The only reason that I can think of, is that black men and Italian men are very similar in a few ways: large dicks, aggressive, big egos, extremely confident. I don’t know if it’s like this in cities with huge Italian circles, but at least in Columbus where there aren’t a ton of Italians, Italian women seem to be very open to dating black men. Don’t ask me why.

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Here is a list of some of the women mentioned in the blog that will give you an idea of what I mean: Blue Eyes: BGO Girl Mojo: Italian Girl The Virgin: Country/BGO Girl R-Rated Girl: European/BGO girl R-Rated Again Girl: Also a European/BGO Girl Screw The Squirrel: Italian Girl My Ex-Wife: Italian Girl Sex Lips: Age 25+ Girl Barbie Doll: Country/BGO Girl Chocolate Chip Eyes: Country/BGO Girl Appleface: Country Girl Broadway: BGO Girl 4-H: Country Girl Cornfed: Country Girl The Librarian: Italian/BGO Girl The Brit: BGO Girl Angel: Country/BGO Girl Mahal: BGO Girl I could go on and on, but clearly, you can begin to see a pattern emerging. I don’t think any of those girls were your typical All American girl that you’d see in an Abercrombie & Fitch advertisement. The vast majority of them were either Italian, BGO, or Country/European. There are more older women, but I neglected to give most of them official names in the blog, so you don‘t see them on this list. Looking at this pattern, as a black guy, I can see that I need to be focusing almost all of my game on Italian women, Country girls if I can find a way to identify them, Age 25+ women, and I need to be going to the places where the majority of BGO girls hang out at (hip-hop/urban style bars). I was talking to The Drunken Russian about why I seem to do so well at Onyx, even when I don’t want to go there on some nights and am sometimes in a grumpy mood. The answer? It has a VERY high concentration of BGO, and Age 25+ women. Something to think about.